31st May 2010
First Date Standards
Don’t feel bad if first dates make you nervous. It is a natural reaction to an unusual circumstance. Maybe the reason why they can be so nerve-racking is because they can go either way. When a first date goes great, we feel on top of the world. But when it goes wrong, it can be a terribly embarrassing thing. And nothing is worse than knowing it went poorly and to have it confirmed by a rejection for a second date. So how do we make sure we have a great first date? There is no simple formula, but with a few simple tips you might be having a bit more success.
A first date is all about getting to know someone, so that’s what you should make sure to do. You don’t need to bother to impress the other person with fancy gifts or huge bundles of flowers. All you need is your own personality and some indication that you’ve put some effort into the date. Make the other person feel special and wanted. You can do this by simply paying close attention to what they say while sharing any pertinent information about yourself. So make sure to pick a spot where you can talk and get to know one another. Who knows, that simple walk along the beach may reveal that you are her true soulmate.
There are a few things you should never discuss when on a first date. Don’t talk about past relationships or people you’ve gone out with. This date is about new beginnings, not dwelling on the past. Not to mention the very real possibility that you will totally freak the other person out. Time spent on talking about bad breakups is time wasted. So avoid controversial topics like politics and religion and keep the conversation light hearted. Most of all be yourself and just try to have fun. Attraction comes naturally so you won’t be able to force it if you try. In time, you may be such an expert that you look forward to first dates on a regular basis.
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